• Wild_Mastic@lemmy.world
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    5 days ago

    A friend of mine broke up with his girlfriend after almost 3 years. 2 weeks later after that, he already had a new ‘love ❣️’ saves on his phone. No idea how the fuck he does it, but onestly it made me angry.

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      4 days ago

      People are often over a relationship long before it’s actually over, especially if one party is abusive or the relationship is toxic (with or without someone’s fault).

      I could’ve well been that friend, because nobody knew that I took my breaking up back and stayed in the relationship until my ex broke up with me because he was threatening suicide if I broke up with him.

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        You’re right, there are complex cases, and often as externals we know nothing.

        I was thinking more of the ‘playboy’ guy who keep changing girls because they get boring.

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          If it keeps happening from the same person, it becomes increasingly unlikely that their situation is like mine, yeah