Who are these people? Guy asked you for legendary and you went niche. There are plenty of talented women that have written and performed legendary songs that you could have chosen.
But I am sorry for defending him. He seems like an incel himself and kind of a dick.
The guy he answered is showing a worse persona than your description throughout this whole thread and you haven’t really shown any kindness yourself.
Also you being insecure and uncultured doesn’t automatically make others around you pedantic and snobby.